Higher CallingA Cancer Diagnosis helped Dolly O'Neal find her Passion in Fundraising Efforts to Assist Others with the Afflicted Disease.Crossroads
salutes Dolly O’Neal, Director of Development for the UAB Comprehensive
Cancer Center. Since joining the Center in 2002, Mrs. O’Neal has worked
closely with administration, faculty and staff to educate people about
the innovative research and compassionate patient care at the Center.
As a member of the Community Affairs Office, she works with the UAB
Development Office to obtain philanthropic gifts for the Center. A
graduate of the University of Alabama, Mrs. O’Neal and her husband Bert
have three children: Bert, 25, offensive coordinator for the Washington
& Lee University Generals in Lexington, Virginia; Camper, 23, a
financial advisor for Merrill Lynch; and Amy, 19, a sophomore at Auburn
University.
The name Dolly is quite appropriate for Cancer
Center Development Director Dolly O’Neal because it describes her
perfectly. As one coworker describes her: She is so energetic and
enthusiastic, and she always has a smile on her face. She’s just a
perfect ‘Dolly.’
A resident of Mountain Brook, Mrs. O’Neal
joined the Cancer Center in 2002 as its first full-time employee
devoted entirely to fundraising and development. Her association with
the Cancer Center, however, goes back 10 years – to when she herself
was a cancer patient.
A Cancer Diagnosis
In 1994, a self-exam found a small lump in Mrs. O’Neal’s right breast.
At first, the experience was a bit overwhelming. When you’re diagnosed
with cancer, you don’t have any control over it, she says. You just
have to fight through it and hope your treatment turns out positive.
One of the first steps Mrs. O’Neal took was calling her friend Ann
Hayes, whose husband Jim had been treated for cancer and was a member
of the Cancer Center Supporters Board at the time. I asked, ‘What
should I do?’ she recalls. And Jim began to tell me about the Cancer
Center at UAB, and he said there was no other place he would even
consider going. He was the one who told me about it being a
comprehensive center and what that meant.
After talking to Mr.
Hayes, Mrs. O’Neal was at the Cancer Center the next day to see Albert
LoBuglio, M.D, who was Center Director at the time. Mrs. O’Neal was
actually one of the first patients to be seen in the Center’s new
breast cancer interdisciplinary clinic, which utilizes a team approach
of various cancer specialists to design individualized treatment plans
tailored to each patient. Because she had no family history of breast
cancer, her doctors decided not to administer any chemotherapy or
radiation therapy. Instead she had a lumpectomy, performed by Cancer
Center Senior Scientist Marshall Urist, M.D., followed by a single
mastectomy with reconstruction under the care of UAB plastic surgeon
Luis Vasconez, M.D. I was lucky because I didn’t need chemotherapy for
the type of cancer I had, she says. Chemotherapy would have made
matters worse for me, and my doctors knew that.
Giving Back to the Cancer Center
A year and a half after receiving the all clear from her physicians,
Mrs. O’Neal decided she wanted to do something to give back to the
Cancer Center. I wanted to make something positive out of my
experience, she says. So she began looking for ways to raise money,
which led to a fortuitous meeting with Bruce Sokol, whose wife was
undergoing treatment for breast cancer. Together, they established the
Breast Cancer Research Foundation of Alabama (see story on page X),
which raises money for the Cancer Center.
After six years of
working solely with the Foundation, a chance for Mrs. O’Neal to expand
her fundraising capabilities arose when Cancer Center Executive
Administrator Larry Williams, M.B.A., asked her to join the Center as
its full-time development director. It was one of those opportunities
in life that are just dropped in your lap, she says. I was scared to
say yes, but I didn’t want to say no.
Mrs. O’Neal agreed to
accept the position for a trial period of one year. Four years later,
she is still going strong. I have a passion for helping the Cancer
Center in its fundraising to advance technology and treatments, she
says. I found my passion, and I didn’t know what it was until I had
cancer. Because of that, cancer made me a better person.
During
her time as development director, Mrs. O’Neal has made great efforts to
establish and cultivate relationships with local groups and
organizations. Part of those relationships is educating people about
the work being done at the Cancer Center and what it has to offer. I’m
so proud of the work that takes place here, and I want to spread that
word, she says. Thanks to Mrs. O’Neal, the Cancer Center is the
recipient of funds from many local groups and businesses, including the
Greater Birmingham Association of Home Builders, the Birmingham
Quilters Guild, Parisian and Saks Fifth Avenue.
But it is those
individual cancer survivors and family members who are most important
to Mrs. O’Neal. I see my job as helping people find a way to give
back. Cancer patients and survivors are so appreciative because of what
they have been through. It’s amazing to me how willing they are to help
others, she says. Those patients who are undergoing treatment yet
still find time to volunteer and help others inspire Mrs. O’Neal. She
cites her friend Ethel Feigelson as a perfect example of this. Mrs.
Feigelson was an active volunteer for the Breast Cancer Research
Foundation even while undergoing treatment for breast cancer herself.
Though she lost her battle with cancer in 2003, Mrs. Feigelson is still
helping cancer patients through the Ethel Feigelson Patient Assistance
Fund, which Mrs. O’Neal helped to establish.
Dolly is a wonderful
and inspiring presence here in the Cancer Center, says Peter Emanuel,
M.D., Cancer Center Acting Director. She has done so much to expand
our presence in the community. The passion that she brings to her job
is amazing.
Future Developments
As Mrs. O’Neal enters her fifth year as development director, she will
also be entering into her biggest fundraising task to date. This fall,
the Cancer Center launches a $15-million fundraising effort for its new
radiation oncology facility. This freestanding, state-of-the-art
facility will house the entire UAB Department of Radiation Oncology,
which is currently housed in the Wallace Tumor Institute (see stories,
pages X and X).
The radiation oncology department has simply
outgrown its current space, Mrs. O’Neal says. As more patients are
being seen, it is vital that we have a large, technology advanced
facility to meet patients’ needs.
This project is a joint
effort between the Cancer Center and the UAB Development Office. The
effort will run through the summer of 2007. It’s a little overwhelming
to think about what a large amount we need to raise, she says. But
when you believe what you’re raising money for, and you know it’s going
to improve patients’ lives, it’s not so overwhelming.
Along
with the radiation oncology effort, Mrs. O’Neal will continue with her
other projects. She is currently raising money for an endowed chair in
honor of Dr. LoBuglio, who stepped down as Center director in 2004, but
still serves as a faculty member. She also still serves as president of
the Breast Cancer Research Foundation. A former flight attendant for
Delta Airlines, she and her husband Bert are avid travelers and enjoy
spending time with their children at their condominium in Point Clear.
Mrs. O’Neal also enjoys being with her other three children, her
labradors Honey and Georgia and her Corgi, Wags the Dog.
When
asked what keeps her going, Mrs. O’Neal’s answer is simple: I believe
in the Cancer Center, I believe in the doctors, and I believe that they
are making progress in fighting this disease.